Saturday, December 17, 2011

Betcha Expecting Something Major.

Nope, this is just my dumb old blog.  I can go in any direction, but I am going to go in the direction of coffee, so brb.  :)

I really don't have much to say.  I have a lot to say, but I don't want to go there.  I don't want to bring a bunch of heavy stuff to the table.  Let me give you a tale of two stories.  One is my Brother-in-Law Brian.  Although he lives in paradise his life this year has not been all that great.  Him and his partner broke up.  It was one of those where his partner was not happy, and he left.  It is hard for Brian, because hard not to take that personally.  I know Mike Brian's ex-partner, and it probably wasn't Brian at all.  Michael just wasn't happy in general.  You live a life, you do all the tough stuff.  He is gay, so came out of the closet to his parents, and you live a life where you are bound by nothing.  He moves from Missouri to Seattle, to Maui, to Oahu.  Meets the funniest mother fucker in the world Brian, who is  a good looking male with a great personality, and a strong person.  You have a great house overlooking Diamond head, great neighbors, and great friends.  You see happiness is a feeling on the inside.  It isn't what we acquire, or where we live, or what we do, it is how we feel.  You ain't going to feel it 100%.  When your fairy tales come crashing down, there is an empty sadness that remains.  We all need good friends, and we all need support, because there is no heaven on Earth so to speak.  You will not find perfection in your friends, partners, your life, or yourselves.  Life is full of hard shit, and that is why we need support. 

So there is that, and Brian's friend Greg.  BTW Greg, and I, and Lisa, and Lisa's mom were a support for Brian when he came out of the closet.  We were like I don't give a shit.  I was a bit shocked, but I wondered at times.  I could give a fuck what anyones sexual preferences are.  Just be glad you are not a Dahmer or some weird fuck like that.  Anyway Greg and his wife got their divorce finalized a day or two ago.  That was a necessity.  Staying married for the wrong reasons is never right.  It will just lead to unhappiness, and anger, and all kinds of crap.  Whatever brought them together in the first place was long gone.  They are two different people.  Greg is a colorful person with a great sense of humor, and a free spirit.  His wife is a complete keep up with the Jones'es person.  Not a good match.  So Brian is probably down on his split up, Greg has to be relieved.  This will be better for the kids too. 

At the end of the day you gotta be friends, and that is why Lisa and I work so well.  We enjoy each other's company, and we let each other do whatever the fuck we want.  :)

This blog ain't no great thing, it is just life. 

I am adding Greg and Brian to xoxoxoxoxoxo, because their life has just had a big change, and even those two guys need support.  Surfing ain't a cure to all life's ills, but it don't hurt.  :)  Same with alcohol.  It ain't a cure for anything, but it is fun, as long it is not used as an escape. 

I am adding John Miller and his whole family to xoxoxoxoxo.  Laura Miller and Jim were good friends here and there in their life.  John Miller's mom read some poem at the visitation thingy, and John is like the King of Fremd support, and get togethers.  Sadly I seem to only make the sad ones.  :) 

That is it for today!!!   :)

Thanks for reading!!!   :)

Hope Everyone has a Great and Awesome Day!!!   :)

xo's!!!   :)

Love You All!!!    :)

p.s.  Blackhawks are on a roll. 

Love You All  xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Ya'All are the best xoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Extras of these  xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Extras of these  xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Extras for Christine McCarthy, she is a great girl.  :)  xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Now for really really cya cya cya  :D   :D 

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